Joonies- if you thought we would never include a male perspective on this blog, you were wrong. Here at SexandFessenjoon, we are ALL about variety and trying NEW things. So please join me in introducing our new, MALE (and sexy) writer, JAMES BOND. Bond is your typical, asshole Persian stud- with not only a lot of baggage (aka wisdom), but also ladies. Feel free to drop him a pickup line at firstname.lastname@example.org or please tell him he’s full of shit- God knows, we do!
Enjoy his first of many, wonderful downright inappropriate posts below:
Hey… um joonies? I just wanted to start my first post off with this: “I hate assholes.” My entire life, I’ve been hearing this bullshit from girls: hot girls, pretty girls, average girls, even the uglies (Sorryboutit). And here is my response: YEAH RIGHT. THAT IS ABSOLUTE GARBAGE.
When it really comes down to it, women crumble at the temptation of the asshole guy every damn time. Girls love the idea of the “nice guy,” but in reality, its just an idea and at the end of the day, they want a “nice guy” who is BOLD and confident enough to not take any bullshit from anyone… aka the ASSHOLE.
The definition of a so-called “asshole guy” is bad, bold and confident- he doesn’t worry about who he might offend or upset by his actions and most importantly, he doesn’t look for validation from others. The reason women are so attracted to the asshole type is because of their confidence, its what separates them from your average, little bitch ass “NICE guy.”
The asshole gets all the action and hooks up with the girl, while the nice guy gets stuck with the shit end of the stick.
It’s true, in the end- the girl always uses the nice little SOOSOOL guy as a shield or even worse: a shoulder to cry on when the asshole hooks up with her friend instead, and the part that really gets me going is:
girls act surprised every single time when a known asshole acts douchey towards them or as they like to claim, “hurts their feelings.”
I’ve had a lot of relationships: long term, short term, one night stands (best relationships ever), and all it comes down to is “CHECKS AND BALANCES” The asshole knows how to balance himself: not be too mean, or too shallow or cocky. Instead, they are forward… BOLD. When women get butthurt, they translate their confidence to “jerk, ass, bastard… douchebag…”
Let me give you an example:
My homie is good looking (that’s right, I’m confident/bold enough to admit it). He’s tall, light skin, blue eyes- Persian girl’s dream. But he’s not bold when it comes to picking up women. And let me tell you, I might be cute, but I ain’t no six foot, blue eyed beast. Anyway, back in college, there was this gorgeous girl at our school. We met her at the gym one day and every time we saw her, he would shower her with compliments and tried SO hard to be funny. This went on for about 3-4 months and during this time, I just ignored her. And by “ignore,” I mean, I didn’t make a huge effort to go talk to her every time I saw her. One day, I was talking to one of my female homies and the gorgeous girl approached me. When I went over to talk to her, she asked if I was sleeping with my female friend. When I said no, she followed up with, “how come you never tried to get with me or ask me out.” BAMMMM, she fell right into my little asshole trap. It was what I was waiting for and after that day, it was a done deal.
Look, I always treat women with respect. Just because I’m confident and am man enough to say what needs to be said doesn’t mean I’m an asshole (even though I’ve been labeled one too many times). At the end of the day, i’m the one she picks… and that’s ALL that matters.
I’m not trying to encourage guys to be JERKS or assholes. I’m just saying, if you want the girl or her ass, be confident. MEN who have the balls to approach and charm the shit out of women get labeled as “assholes” for one reason only:
Women don’t have enough confidence or self esteem to handle our kind- that’s why they come up with these crazy stereotypes.
But tell me this ladies, why do you always fall for our charm ANYWAY?
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