I feel like I’ve been a little MIA- but I could really use the distraction tonight and I swear I have a good excuse… let’s just call it, MARKET RESEARCH.
Excuses? Yeahhhh… my bad. Let me explain.
I have pretty strict rules when it comes to dating.
Not because my mom would disapprove of anything less, but because I just don’t like losing control– issues? I think so. If I give “it” up quickly, then that guy is automatically considered “un-dateable…” at least in my mind. I instantly write them off as a “hook-up” or “friends with benefits” because ultimately, I don’t really want to give it up immediately to the guy I’m dating. Ideally, I want him to work for it.
It goes both ways– you might think I’m easy for letting you f#ck me, but I think you’re easy for lasting x minutes.
Don’t ask me how I come up with these rules, but it’s always worked for me… until now.
I met this Persian guy recently through some friends- and I was instantly interested. I’m sure I’ve mentioned this before, but there is something just incredibly sexy about a guy who can spit out Farsi like it’s no big deal. So of course, one of the first nights we all hang out in a group- with drinks involved- we end up making out.
And the next night, one thing led to another and we ended up hooking up for real. I’m not really sure what motivated me to do it— regardless, it happened. And it was really great.