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Was AIDS my KILLA?

Today is World AIDS day.

34 Million People around the world suffer from being HIV-positive.

I’m sure all you joons, can go and google the sh!t out of all these stats- the where,what,how,andwhy- the general lowdown on AIDS/HIV. (Isn’t that effing awesome? Thanks to the internet, more people can be educated about helping find a cure! IN THIS DAY AND AGE–we’re not lucky, we’re blessed.yes)

Now we want to RAISE AWARENESS about another problem- something, we’re all guilty of. It’s called the NOT-TALKING-ABOUT-IT-MAKES-IT-NOT-EXIST disorder.

The TABOO SYNDROME.

sometimes you just gotta play the penis game.

Why is that ONE day a year (Dec 1)– Iranians become comfortable with SEX? Go surf your facebooks, how many statuses did you ‘like’ that had to do with CONDOMS, SAFE SEX, STDs, HIV?

It’s great to show your support, but I guarantee if ALI or TINA were to put up a status “make sure you wear a condom when having sex”  on a random day in April— you’d kind of think they’re crazy. or worse- promiscuous.

How many of you are unwilling to LIKE our facebook page because it has the WORD S-E-X in it? OH what would my ammeh, or amoo hooshang think!?

here’s our question, as the writers of S&f who are talking about things that aren’t maman-and-baba friendly:

WHAT THE F#CK ARE YOU AFRAID OF? 

and is it worth risking your health?

LET’S ALL SAY IT TOGETHER:

TALKING ABOUT SEX DOES NOT MAKE ME A WHORE.

IT’S NOT ZESHT.

IT’S NATURAL.

 Regardless of where you stand in the spectrum with your sex life from the virgins, to the very experienced,  sex is an integral part of your life. and you need to understand it before you can love it, be good at it, and be safe with it. Again, I’m not talking about your philosophy on whether you should have sex or NOT- It’s about making the decision to be real about something that our parents, grandparents, and sometimes friends, BRUSH under the rug.

1 in 5 people with HIV don’t EVEN KNOW they have HIV. How messed up is that?

WE’re all constantly wired— updated on everylittle thing that goes on via fbook, texts, twitter, etc. we SHOULD be updated on our health–

if you’re having sex (oral, vaginal, anal, WHATEVER) it is a REALITY that you can get STDs. sorryboutit. just because you don’t talk about it does NOT make it go away.

because your parents dont know about it, OR you dont go to the gyno bc you dont want the doc to know you’re sexually active OR you think you can trust your partner WILL not change the reality: you must  protect yourself.

Let me break it down for you:

GIRLS: If you’re having sex, and you’re not telling anyone that does not RE-VIRGIN-ATE you. Afraid of labels? It’s better to be afraid of Herpes, syphillis, gonnorrhea, HIV.<<<that shit’s cray!

if you’re not OWNING your sexuality, you’re not going to protect yourself- because you’re going to be LESS LIKELY to ask the GUY to wear a condom, cause you’re already feeling shame for opening your legs.

THERE’S NO SHAME IN THAT GAME. We promise.

So PLEASE get tested and stay safe. even if you want to stay anonymous (Thankyouplannedparenthood).

2. EVERYONE: please create an environment for yourself and your friends to be open to talk about these things. and if you still dont want to open up to anybody, AT LEAST open up with your partner. that’s just purely for RESPECT.

“I know I’m about to go down on you, but I want to make sure you’re clean have you been tested?”

—-isn’t that more self-respecting than the girl who ACTS like a virgin but is really opening her legs without asking (Cause she’s too scared to make rules.)?

For guys, if you’re spreading it because you’re too ASHAMED to tell someone you have an STD— bro, you’re a GRADE A DOUCHEBAG. and if you’re spreading it because you DON’T EVEN KNOW you have one–you’re a world class IDIOT

get tested irooni boys, we know you eff those white&asian girls on the regular.

Today’s post may be more than some of you readers can swallow, but it’s necessary. If what you read made you uncomfortable:

FACEBOOK US

sexandfessenjoon@Gmail.com

-we can definitely be that person you talk to about your sex life ;) cause we dont judge.

Lovingly yours,

The S&F Team
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